missing papi..

my dad.

i called him “papi”

Today is valentine’s day, and i want to write something special about someone i love so much

Nice and funny things about my daddy, I WILL never stop LOVING Him…

  1. Bakso a.k.a Meatball! my daddy likes meatballs and during vacations, he always asked my mom, me n my sisters to go eat some meatballs and noodle at Bakso malang Karapitan, cihampelas walk or sometimes at setiabudi supermarket..we always go out to restaurants til i got typhoid fever last 2008…so, during the last vacation, we ate at our house more often..hehehe.
  2. my daddy is religious, i mean.. among all the family member, he’s the most religious one, and he’s a good example for us cos of course he’s the head of the family and he’s playin a good role.  well.. i’ll make him happy, i’ll try my best to be religious.
  3. my dad doesn’t know how to cook, so, he always make fruit juices for breakfast, like pineapple, papaya, strawberry, apple, mango, and whatever fruit that is there in my house, he’ll always serve us with fruit juices.
  4. when he’s working, he will go to the hospital in the morning with my mom, and me and my sister always wake up a little later after they went out, and my dad always call us to remind us to drink the juice, eat breakfast, take the vitamin…etc… he even call juz to ask “have u take a bath?” OMG… i feel so broken without him.
  5. i have similar abilities with my dad, both of us doesn’t really know how to cook, and to process food, so when my mom is cooking, i’ll help in cutting the vegetables and stuff, and i’m kinda slow, so my dad will always teach me how to hold the knife and how to cut it well, with a good shape of vegetable, so, when i cut the vegetables into a wrong shape, he’ll say “it’s not like that, juz go, let me do it” hehehe.. and i’ll go. haha.. i love my dad, SO MUCH! i’ll be the expert of cutting vegetables, like my dad! haha
  6. my daddy is patient, me and my family likes goin to the malls to buy stuff, all of us except my dad are female, so of course when we shop, it WILL take a long time, Loooong time! but my daddy never complained, he accompanied us patiently, even when he’s sleepy, and most of the time, he’s the one who carried our things and we juz walk, talk, and shop, what a dad, i love him.
  7. and when we went out and arrive at home late at night, he’ll carry our stuff, we juz go enter the house and sleep, he’s really nice and we’re spoiled.
  8. my dad likes politics, he always ask me to watch news in TV together with him, and also some politics programs, he always said “wenny, let’s watch *this or that*, it’s nice…” and i usually prefer to watch drama. OMG.. what an attitude
  9. and when i really wanted to watch telenovela and drama.. he’ll watch with me and he’ll react on the scene that i like, like romantic scene… he’ll say “i think i’m more handsome than that guy” or “wenny, u like that kind of guy? you should find a guy like me, handsome and cool” LOL.. i miss him.
  10. oh,,,and when my dad knows what we like (for example, and actor : “Christian Sugiono”) he’ll find out stuff about him and he’ll tell us, haha…
  11. during my last vacation with my dad, we talked a lot about obama, and i enjoyed it, i love my dad, and seeing or hearing about obama reminds me of my daddy, by the way, it’s obama, “obama” not samuel “barrack” K! LOL..hahahah
  12. my daddy is like my friend, in our family, we usually eat breakfast, lunch and dinner together, i mean, we should always gather and sit around the dining table and eat together, during eating time, we talked and laugh and tease each other, we’re so close, and i never regret any single time that i had with my dad
  13. my daddy loves me, he’s really nice, he knows what i want, for example when i was looking at his celphone, he said “wenny, u like it? ok…i’ll give it to wenny”…and some other stuff, i mean, he knows what i like even when i didn’t say it, when i stare at something, he’ll say “wenny, u like it?”,, i miss him sooo much!!!
  14. My dad always accompanny me to the HOSPITAL, and i juz realized that i am 22 years old and i’m spoiled. i can’t go there without him, it’s like so scary to go to the doctor’s office without my dad, and even to the pharmacy, and i realized that i’m too old to be spoiled.
  15. last time we went to the hospital, my daddy doesn’t want to accompany me even when i beg him with all my heart, and he told me “wenny, if i always accompany you everywhere, when will u become independent?” and i realized now, he’s right.
  16. well… hhmmm… my dad is too nice, he always prepare hot water for me to take a bath, even during my last vacation (i’mm 22!!!, and he still prepare hot water for me?!!!)  and now, when i want to take a bath, i remember him, and i’m kinda addicted to hot water, couldn’t take a bath with cold water. i love my dad
  17. my dad doesn’t want me and my sisters to watch harry potter cos it’s not good, and he’s right, we waste our time by watching that movie, and it’s addictive cos the story is kinda interesting
  18. i bought a maroon shirt for my dad last christmas, and he loved it, and i feel happy that he likes it, me and my older sister brought it,, and i bought another maroon dress for me, and we wear it together during the 1st sabbath in the year 2009, and my mom let him wear it inside the coffin. i love maroon and i love my dad.
  19. my grandfather and my great grandfather were killed when my dad was still young, and he forgave the killer, so… i will forgive myself, and whoever and whatever the cause of the death of my daddy, cos i love my dad, and he tought me how to forgive people, i love my dad.
  20. when my mom is busy cooking and stuff and when my dad is dressing, he’ll always ask us (the children) if his shirt match with the pants and if it matches the tie… and i miss him, cos he usually chose unmatched colors which will make us laugh…and i miss those times,, so bad

Well… i think that is enough for today, i’ll write more later.. cos i don’t want to forget the good things that he had done for me, my mom and everyone,,,

my mom told me and my sisters that 4 of us are too spoiled, and maybe that is the reason why God took my dad away, for us to learn to be more independent and religious. God, please help us!!

hhhmmm… this day is memorable, cos the only person that i adore in this valentine’s day is my papi, my daddy,,,I LOVE you so much papi, and i will try hard and harder to be a good and religious person, so that i could go to heaven to see you agan,,, love ya

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